Why I'm Not Going to College

In my decision making process in high school, I wrestled a lot with knowing what God's will was.

The world says I need to go to college to have a degree to have a job to have security. I heard countless scenarios of why I need to go to college... 

"You will be more hireable if you have a degree." 

"You will get paid more with a degree." 

"Even if you just want to be a mom, your husband might die and you will need to support yourself." 

"You will be more qualified." 

Everything. I just heard everything.

And from the world's perspective, they were all right. I should go to college. That's the next best step after high school. But something kept telling me they were wrong. I tried to satisfy both sides; I thought about doing YWAM, a six month missions school. I thought about going to Moody for missions. I looked into a lot of things that would satisfy both the world's desires and my heart's deepest desires, but it still didn't sit quite right with me.

Every argument for me (me, not necessarily everyone else) going to college came down to having money. More money for a more comfortable, secure life. It all had to fit into an American box that is padded and air conditioned. But what I read today struck a heartstring and put to words what I couldn't express.

“But then I realize there is never going to come a day when I stand before God and he looks at me and says, ‘I wish you would have kept more for yourself.’ I’m confident that God will take care of me.”

Now, this was in the context of materialism and the story of the young rich man in the Bible, but nonetheless, it rings true to my heart.

I want to serve The Lord. I don't know what that is going to look like 10 years down the road or even 1 year down the road, but that is my desire. I don't really want a 9-5 job. I don't want to have to squeeze God into my field, I want the spreading of His kingdom to be my field. I doubt that God will be disappointed that I didn't get a higher degree, or a degree at all if that's what it comes to.

I might end up in college. There are some things you have to go to college for, like being a teacher, doctor, nurse, pilot, etc. but I will not be going to college for material gain, for worldly success, for earthly comfort or security. No, that is far from my goal. If I go, it will be for the advancement of His kingdom.

To my friends in college, study hard. Be a kingdom of priests, holy and set apart that those around you might see very clearly that you are working for something greater than yourselves.

To my friends looking into college, pray a lot. God could be calling you to something far greater than that padded, air conditioned box. And He can definitely use college as a part of His grand plan, but it is also very possible that He might not. So pray about it.

To my friends far beyond college, continue to look at your life and ask yourself what you are doing. Are you comfortable? Comfortable to a fault? Is your heart aching for something bigger? Your padded box may be really great, in fact I am sure it is, but does it really matter? Does your life truly look any different than your unbelieving neighbor?

Don't wait to follow God. Don't try to fit your life into that padded box, because chances are, God's plans are infinitely bigger than what would ever fit into the box. And shoots, that can be scary because it might be really hard and uncomfortable, but guys. If it is God's huge box you are living in, I promise it will be the most beautiful, fulfilling, rewarding life you could ever imagine. 

Our sermon Sunday morning really hit home with me as well. John talked about treasures in heaven and said, "Whatever you give to Christ, whether that is your time, money, resources, energy...Whatever you give to Him is immediately touched with immortality; it stretches into eternity." Friends this world is not our home. Ecclesiastes 3:11 tells us that God has set eternity in the heart of man. Heaven is where we belong. Heaven is where our true citizenship lies. So don't be afraid to live that way! This world has nothing to offer you. You don't have to satisfy the world's desires. So whatever you do, may it be for what lies beyond this sin-ridden place.

Trust Him. His box may seem more daunting, but what safer place to be than in the center of His perfect will?

I Don't Have An Answer

I have a lot of thoughts going through my head right now. This post might not make a ton of sense as a result, but I will do my best.

I'm reading a book called Radical by David Platt. I picked it up at just the right time. As I am drawing closer to January 6, my heart has been getting more and more distracted. Though God has blessed me with the time to simply dwell in His presence, I have been filling my time with fleeting things... 

New thought: I have come to realize that I hate disappointing people. I want to please them and make people happy, and when I cannot do that, I feel really awful about myself. Upon experiening this recently, I was convicted by the Spirit. Shootskies...that's the worst. It was brought to my attention that I had been disappointing God. I had put Him on the backburner and let him become the after-thought instead of my every thought. Though I know He gave me this semester to prepare my heart, I have let my heart become delighted in things apart from Him. And the bugger is, I wasn't feeling bad about it. So the nudge came from the Spirit, and I was feeling like too much light was being shed on my wrongs. I prayed about it two days ago and asked that He would renew my passion and love for His Word. I laid out my sins before Him, and what I received back was the beautiful reminder He gave His people Israel in the book of Jeremiah in the midst of their sin. In chapter 30, He revealed their sin and desparate need for Him. In chapter 31, He told them, "I have loved you with an everlasting love, therefore I have continued my faithfulness with you." Hokety toots what a good God we serve. Though He despises sin, His faithfulness cannot fail and His love cannot be diminished, for the price of my blackened heart has been paid in full.

Yesterday, I picked up Radical. I have only read the first four chapters, but in those chapters, I have been reminded of why I am going to Beautiful Gate. I have been reminded of the power of God, the whole-hearted devotion He deserves, His mission for creation, and my part in it. After asking for a renewal of passion, God plopped this book in my lap a day later. Thankfully He answered me quickly (: So here are some thoughts and questions I have after reading just a sliver of this book...

The gift I have of salvation is worth everything. Everything. Do I get that? Am I willing to give up everything to buy that field where I found the treasure? Is the faith I have worth dying for? My answer to all of those things is probably no. This faith we have in the US is so safe. There is no risk in being a Christian, or at least the way we live as Christians. Yet Christians around the world and throughout history have danced to their deaths with singing, because they understood that there is so much more to life than what we have here. To be persecuted for Christ is a joy. To give Him everything brings the greatest reward of all. So what do I need to do to make it my life? What does living dangerously for The Lord look like? I don't know have an answer...I'm still searching.

I have at least 15 Bibles in my home right now. 15. And hokey toots, that is the living, breathing, perfect, holy word of a sovereign, powerful, mighty, awesome, omnipotent God. And I have fifteen copies of it!! Why do I waste so much time doing meaningless things when I can sit and listen to GOD?! He has written this beautiful book of love and salvation and justice and mercy, and yet picking it up seems like a chore at times. Why? WHY?! God, the creator of the universe, the one who was and is and is to come has given me 66 books of Himself. Why do I lack the hunger and thirst that so many others all over the world have? I don't have the answer...I'm still searching.

We very rarely have to depend solely on God. We always have a back up plan. Yes, there are times when we are stripped of that, but for the most part, we can live each day without truly needing God to provide for us in some way or another. I don't think I like that. In our weakness, we are made strong. And God is given the glory. So why do I try to do everything myself? If I would just live in dependence on Him, I would feel far richer and God would become far greater in my life. And people would see Him too, because it would be evident that I couldn't possibly survive without Him. Why don't I let Him prove His might? I don't have the answer...I'm still searching.

"Go and make disciples of all nations." That is a command. To everyone. Everyone is called to global missions. Everyone has been given the task of bringing Heaven to earth. And that doesn't mean we all need to go far away, but so often we make the excuse that we can do missions "right where God has you" and we don't do anything whatsoever. If God is calling you to make a difference in West Michigan, than make a difference in West Michigan!!! But that difference can still be global. And it should be. His heart reaches to the ends of the earth, and if it is no longer I who live, but Christ in me, than my heart should reach to the ends of the earth as well, even if that means I am reaching out without going out. There are so many things we should be doing. And we aren't. Why not?? I don't have the answer...I'm still searching.

Well, this post has become far longer than I intended, but those are just a few of the things on my mind. So my challenge to you (and to myself as well) is to seek out some answers. Ask yourself some hard questions and let the Spirit confront you. The worst that will happen is that your heart will be molded to be more like His.

Is your faith worth literally everything to you?

Is the Word of God like honey on your lips? Do you hunger and thirst for the knowledge of Him?

Do you live in a way that makes God greater and you less? Do you rely on Him?

Is your heart reaching to the ends of the earth?

As always, I deeply cherish your prayers. 

Much love,

Gracie